It is very shocking to me that Aaron and I have been married less than a year and it feels as though we have found the keys to keeping a happy marriage.... Already!?
I find myself trying to meet his needs on a daily basis. I find comfort and happiness in pleasing my husband. Whether it means rising early in the morning, as I do, to make his lunch for the day and to put the coffee on or staying up late to watch a movie with him even though I am dog tired. A successful marriage does not just fall into our lap. It is something that we must work on every single day. I was given some advice one time. The person told me that marriage is not 50/50 rather it is give/give. When you strive to show that love and to give all you can to your spouse it makes for such a happier setting. When giving you must also allow yourself to receive that in which your husband or wife is giving to you. See, when you give to your spouse out of the goodness of your heart and out of the love you have for them, it not only brightens their day, but it makes yours that much brighter as well.
So I would say after having Christ in the center, compromise and giving is two very important things in a marriage. God portrays love and we are to make it our daily goal.
"Love is forbearing and kind. Love knows no jealousy. Love does not brag; is not conceited. She is not unmannerly, nor selfish, nor irritable, nor mindful of wrongs. She does not rejoice in injustice, but joyfully sides with the truth. She can overlook faults. She is full of trust, full of hope, full of endurance." 1 Corinthians 13:4-7,